Ladies and gentlemen...Im writin this article because it might make the world a better place to live in one day.The sole purpose of this blog is to give you some answers....Answers to some really complex questions. For years now, iv been contemplating on certain "issues". After reading a number of books and "noticing" the world, i have found all the answers. Let me address the questions first.
"Why do ppl break up??".....
"Why do ppl hate each other AFTER breaking up??"..
"what is it, that makes a person seem so different all of a sudden?"
The list goes on and on. Well, let me put it this way:
An Englishman and a Scotsman both speak English.However, their dialects are so bloody different that they fail to understand each other completely. it is not surprising however to know that they hardly get along. Same is the case with most couples. They speak in different "dialects" when it comes to expressing love.
Most of the people express their feelings by using 4 popular dialects.
1. The dialect of Spoken words ...Or The Dog:
People who speak this dialect use words to express love. Affection, Admiration, Love, Friendship....they express it by TELLING ppl about it. These ppl also EXPECT the same from others. If u dont tell them how u feel about them....then ur not speaking their dialect. These ppl r often compared with DOGS...because dogs respond to verbal commands...."good doogie"..."now thats a good boy" etc etc.
2. The dialect of physical action...Or The Cat:
People who speak this dialect get a little physical to express their feelings. The actions might range from a pat on the back to a sexual relationship . They ONLY feel loved when u SHOW it physically . They r no different from cats . A cat can hunt for its own food. A cat does not respond to verbal commands. It only "purrs" when u tickle it. It shows its affection by rubbing its back against your leg.
3.The dialect of time...Or The Canary:
All some ppl care about is quality time. They dont need anything else. They dont need verbal admiration or favors or a physical expression of ur feelings. All they need, is basically a lot of quality time. A canary basically needs so much attention that it wud die without it. It cud maybe forget about its food...but not attention.
4.The dialect of favors and deeds...Or The Goldfish:
Lets look at a goldfish . Its dsnt care about how much time u spend with it....It certainly dsnt give a damn about ur verbal admiration....and it most definitely does NOT want physical contact. All it cares about is food. It just wants you to do it one favor...FOOD. Some ppl express their feelings by doing favors to others and they expect the same.
The sad thing about life is that most ppl speak only 1 dialect. They dont understand the others and remain woefully ignorant of them. But once a person learns to speak all the dialects, then it will enable him to understand ppl better and will help him manage his relationships a lot better.
Wouldnt it b a lot better to learn more dialects than to lose ppl just because theres a communication gap??
PS- I am not a veteran or a pioneer in relationships....i just hope this will help ppl understand other ppl better.Cheers :)
